What the hell am I doing here and how can I make it Awesome?

by Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] on September 26, 2009

in Farts and Other Stuff

I’m not a writer.

I write.

Quantifying me as a “writer” is not in my descriptors. Not even in the top 10 things of What I Am.

But here I am writing as you now read.

I’ve spent the last 3 days at the Type A Mom conference in Asheville NC (iwanttogobacktohere) listening to so many other women bloggers quantify themselves as writers.

They write to release emotions. They write to share experiences. They write for a living. They write to define themselves.

They do it well; sometimes they do it better than well. They do it with a heavy dose of Awesome.

Me? I brain spew. I get out teh funneh in this little box in my little slice o’ Blogosphere and hope people read it and comment.

I consider myself extremely lucky to have the freedom I’ve given myself to say/write/spew any freaky thought that escapes my wee brain. As long as it brings the LOLs.

Now that I’ve reached my Posts Must Be Read in Under 1 Minute Rule, I’m realizing this isn’t really bringing the LOLs so much as it’s a brain dumpage post.

But really, isn’t that the ultimate point of this hole in the Blogosphere?

I have succeeded in Awesome.

{ 38 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Mrs. Flinger September 26, 2009 at 10:20 pm

So a) hellzya you’re awesome b) writing is about connecting. I don’t give a flying shit what you write like grammatically IF you connect to your audience. As long as you can connect and get emotions drawn out? (lol, thoughts, friendship, etc) then you’re a raging success in my eyes.

And FWIW? You are a raging success. XOXO

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2 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 26, 2009 at 10:25 pm

FLINGAAAAAAH!!!

loves, mama. loves.

(what does FWIW mean?)

((go to bed!))

(((i’m looking in your villa window from my villa window)))

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3 Mrs. Flinger September 26, 2009 at 10:27 pm

HAHAHA! I’m flashin’ you mah boobies RIGHT NAO.

FWIW=For what it’s worth.

You rock. XO

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4 Gabby September 26, 2009 at 10:40 pm

I enjoy your writing. I think you have a way with words that not many other people do. And thats what matters. Almost all the best writers never consider their selfs any good at it. Some of the more popular authors didn’t even classify their own self as ‘writers’. And I’m talking people with huge hits. Of course, most of them didn’t become ‘hits’ till after they died…

Either way. Your writing is amazing.

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5 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 28, 2009 at 12:05 am

*blush*

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6 mommabird2345 September 26, 2009 at 10:41 pm

You are WAY awesome! Write about what ever makes your boat float, as long as it makes you happy.

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7 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 28, 2009 at 12:05 am

i do what i loves. thx.

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8 Melizzard September 26, 2009 at 10:53 pm

I tend to avoid anyone who describes themselves a “writer” and stick with the LOL crowd. The posts are more enjoyable that way.
.-= Melizzard´s last blog ..So you’re wondering why there have been no blog posts… =-.

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9 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 28, 2009 at 12:06 am

and usually shorter.

which is awesome.

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10 Amie aka MammaLoves September 26, 2009 at 11:23 pm

Boy do I know this internal conversation. Conferences and meet-ups always seem to send me spiraling even more.

BTW, I love what you’ve done with the place. Adorable!!!
.-= Amie aka MammaLoves´s last blog ..Monday Inspired =-.

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11 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 28, 2009 at 12:06 am

THANK you. it’s cute and i loves it.

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12 cindy w September 26, 2009 at 11:51 pm

I know what you mean. I’m only a writer for my job – in which I’m technically a freelance technical writer. And I write up long, boring documents about software that nobody in their right mind wants to read (unless you have a raging case of insomnia, because if so, DUDE have I got a cure for you!).

But blogging as my passion? Hmm. I don’t know. Sure, it’s a fun hobby. I like to write up random little stories about stuff that’s happened in my life and whatever cute new thing my kid is doing. But I dont know if I define myself as a “writer” in that sense. Ain’t nobody ever gonna offer me a book deal based on my blog, y’know?

But you? You are Awesome. And hilarious. Keep bringin’ the LOLs, lady.
.-= cindy w´s last blog ..type-a mini-vacation =-.

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13 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 28, 2009 at 12:07 am

my only passion is kept on my DVR.

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14 Two Makes Four September 27, 2009 at 8:03 am

I think u r prty awesome, yo.
.-= Two Makes Four´s last blog ..Taming the Bull(y) =-.

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15 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 28, 2009 at 12:08 am

word.

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16 Karen MEG September 27, 2009 at 9:22 am

You’re already awesome, you love to blog and that’s really all that matters. That, and that you’re hilarious, so there. I just wish I had more time to come by more often, but then that’s my problem.
.-= Karen MEG´s last blog ..Friday Fragments – One week down =-.

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17 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 28, 2009 at 12:10 am

i feel the lovins.

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18 Becky September 27, 2009 at 10:38 am

I want to say I write for me, but every blogger really writes for an audience after they get their first comment from non family members.

Sometimes my writing is hiilarious, on purpose. Sometimes it’s funny in an embarrassing to me kind of way that I am unaware of. Sometimes I am even told I should write a book and that is just plain funny in itself.

As long as we’re awesome in our own heads isn’t that enough? Or is it? Only you can decide that for you.

BTW, I think you are.
.-= Becky´s last blog ..The Knowing is enough =-.

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19 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 28, 2009 at 12:11 am

me in my head is all kinds of Awesome.

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20 Tara R. September 27, 2009 at 3:19 pm

You are the awesomeness! You say what many of us wish we had the balls (bewbs?) to say.
.-= Tara R.´s last blog ..Weekly Winners ~ cars =-.

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21 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 28, 2009 at 12:12 am

i have balls & bewbs. one set i own, the other set i control. you pick which is which.

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22 cindermommy September 27, 2009 at 5:01 pm

I think your writing is funny and real. And I really enjoyed your tweets from the conference- it made me want to go next year. They should really pay you some sort of commission. =)
.-= cindermommy´s last blog ..Ain’t No Party Like a "Sleepover Party"… =-.

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23 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 28, 2009 at 12:12 am

they TOTALLY should. i’m not shy to tweet for pay.

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24 Sue Robinson September 27, 2009 at 5:29 pm

Despite what you may think about yourself, I think you are a damn great writer.

However, I know what you mean. Do I think I am a writer because I poor my emotions and musing into my blog? No, I do it to keep my sanity and feel like am not wasting away in motherland. Does that mean one day I may classify myself as a writer, maybe, not now, but maybe.

Keep up up the great work, because believe it or not, I look up to you and your writing. ;)
.-= Sue Robinson´s last blog ..Oh No He Didn’t! =-.

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25 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 28, 2009 at 12:13 am

awww shucks. thanks!

now stop and go find a real writer to look up to. i know i am.

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26 Mwa September 28, 2009 at 7:21 am

You are awesome! Cool rule, by the way. I like my shorter posts, too.
.-= Mwa´s last blog ..I’m so zen it hurts sometimes =-.

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27 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 29, 2009 at 10:19 am

i do envy those awesome writers who can write and read long interesting posts, but that’s really not me.

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28 Secret Agent Mama September 28, 2009 at 8:13 am

I don’t care what you write. I will always read it.
.-= Secret Agent Mama´s last blog ..We’re Kind of a Big Deal on the Internet =-.

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29 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 29, 2009 at 10:20 am

*lick*

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30 Heather September 28, 2009 at 7:37 pm

yep, you do bring teh awesome right here to the internetz.

and i count myself lucky to know your awesome in person :)
.-= Heather´s last blog ..Season of Change =-.

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31 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 29, 2009 at 10:21 am

and you can say you’ve slept with me over a torrid weekend getaway in chicago.

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32 Miss Grace September 28, 2009 at 8:31 pm

As a fellow INTERNET BRAIN SPEWER, you are totes teh awesome.
.-= Miss Grace´s last blog ..Stalker Scheduling Tips =-.

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33 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 29, 2009 at 10:22 am

*high-fives* for brain spewages!

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34 Lori September 28, 2009 at 9:33 pm

I think you’re “teh awesome” and I’m wondering why we never hung out in high school. I’m thinking we would have shared countless LOLs together.
.-= Lori´s last blog ..Kudos to this mom! =-.

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35 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 29, 2009 at 11:41 am

no idea! maybe b/c we weren’t in the same grade? i was c/o ’94 but was friends w/ lots of different people, so who knows…

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36 Danielle ExtraordinaryMommy September 29, 2009 at 12:25 am

And awesome you are – I like the ‘under one minute’ rule – though I’m too chatty to stick to it all the time. Maybe I’ll try. See? You = inspiring me :)

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37 Angie [A Whole Lot of Nothing] September 29, 2009 at 11:52 am

nice! i can inspire anyone i suppose. ;)

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38 MM October 5, 2009 at 5:29 pm

yep, you do bring teh awesome right here to the internetz.

and i count myself lucky to know your awesome in person :)
.-= Heather´s last blog ..<a href=”http://www.singingwithmyheart.com/?p=1521″ rel=”nofollow”>Season of Change</a> =-.

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